Sex education-should it be allowed in india??

[ashdoc]

Since I joined only this year ,I dont know whether this topic has been discussed on this forum before.

Old echarchans ,you can tell me.

If not .........phir der kis baat ki hai ??!!!!!!

view -counterview anyone ??

Should be allowed - who else but sprite ??

Should not be allowed ..........who ???

Guys I know this is a progressive forum , but surely there is somebody who thinks that giving sex education to school going kids is against Bharatiya sanskriti etc blah blah blah..........

So come up and argue ........

[ashdoc]

shit ,i forgot to post a poll !!!!!

fuck ......shit !!

can the mods do the needful ??

[sprite]

Originally Posted by ashdoc

Should be allowed - who else but sprite ??

You think I am a compounder in your clinic that I don't have any work

bloddy you are doctor....you write an article on such topics...

aise aa jaate hain topics and order lekar jaise khud likhne waale hain aur partner dhoondh rahe hain....

[sprite]

Originally Posted by ashdoc

fuck ......shit !!

can the mods do the needful ??

what you want them to do...fuck or shit?

[milanfanabhi]

allowed?is it been prohibited now?but we had sex education bhashan baazi in 9th grade.We were made to wear condoms to kela and kakdi,which we had to bring from our home,while they provided us cheap sarkari condom.

[Rakhi]

Of course it should be allowed, especially the safe practices of sex, if nothing else! It was since the days I was in school. I learnt so much about it while still in school

[sprite]

Originally Posted by Rakhi

Of course it should be allowed, especially the safe practices of sex, if nothing else! It was since the days I was in school. I learnt so much about it while still in school

Originally Posted by milanfanabhi

allowed?is it been prohibited now?but we had sex education bhashan baazi in 9th grade.We were made to wear condoms to kela and kakdi,which we had to bring from our home,while they provided us cheap sarkari condom.

Never had such exposure in school-time. I attended 45rs/3month fees kendriya vidyalya school

whatever we knew was through our biology text-books (STI/D's and prevention (condoms and stuff), human reproduction anatomy and foetus development, birth-control methods etc etc) which I studied till 12th standard. (CBSE)

It was more than necessary. In 9th standard or schooling we were never going to use a condom anyway that we needed to know how its rolled-on. May be times have changed now. They must have included PMS too in their curriculum

and still I can bet that I know about the 'education' part more than the two sex-educated students quoted above

[JaiSpeaks]

yeah i did not know condom wearing was added . All they said was there is something called as condom to prevent pregnancy ... thats all ... all they went through was human anatomy and explained what these sexual thoughts mean .. By that time though half the class had already watched porn in someway .... VHS tapes named after some obscure Hindi movie ...

the funny thing is that all the guys stopped using the most common name C*** instead referred too in a classy way (vulva) >

[sunnykode]

Off course it should be allowed. I would even say make it compulsory.
We were in high school when we had our sex education. yes by then most of the boys had already seen and known about it ... VHS were big hits. Still remember the name of the first one ... called Chachi 420
But man it was awkward. Our school principle made our whole class sit in one room and went over everything. It took us 3 days to talk with girls

[Rakhi]

Originally Posted by sunnykode

But man it was awkward. Our school principle made our whole class sit in one room and went over everything. It took us 3 days to talk with girls

It was weird for us too....there was this lady who took these special classes for girls and boys separately. But we were also told that if we feel attracted to boys, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it; It is natural. Of course it didnt go too well with parents when they came to know about nothing being wrong part.

[raniraja]

We had sex education in moral science class when I was in class X (once a week, for the non-christians. The christians had catechism). Our teacher herself was so embarrassed to teach the subject that she used to simply read the lessons through in the class. Didn't even understand head nor tail of what she was saying. I don't remember whether we had studied human anatomy in biology then, but nobody could learn anything from the sex education class, except that the word "sex" was brought out in the open.

When one student asked her about "venereal diseases", which wasn't covered in the syllabus then, she too stumbled on the answer, saying that these were caused by "unhygienic conditions", without elaborating on it.

This was in 1978-79. There weren't any videos then and even the pornography wasn't readily sold on the roadside as is done now.

The sex education didn't seem to make much difference either way. One was as curious, full of wrong information, misconceptions, confused, lusty and unknowing of the partner's feelings/ reactions/ wants. Experience has been the best teacher.

[chachaG]

Yes it is necessory

[chitrala]

Welcome chachaG!
Nice Avatar.

[milanfanabhi]

condon wearing thing was a shame.One guy brought a dozen of bananas and other got 1 kg cucumber and distributed to other guys.No guy wanted to tell their parents that they wanted a banana/cucumber for wearing a condom on it,

[Anonymous]

Personally I do not think its needed. I/we never had any and are doing ok.

There is a very thin line between being-open-about-sex/sex-education and actually-having-free-sex.

All the mind-games that sex plays on the mind of children/adolescents can be resolved by actually having sex, that is it;
being open about sex/having sex education hardly helps; on the contrary the mind games get more complicated which ultimately can be controlled only by actually doing it rather than just studying. Thats a desi guy's pov, cant speak for ladies.

Our society at large will not approve pre-marital-sex or free-sex with multiple partners. That may be 'personal choice' but never a social-choice. And I respect our culture the way it is.