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Old July 18th, 2002, 03:09 PM
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Mata Pita ki jimmedari kab khatam hoti hain? When parents responsibility is over?

Our culture is having parents and childrens. We are living and growing with parents. In America parents and children dont living together after childrens have become big.

What you think is good culture? Our way or American way?

Bharat varsh ki parampaara to yeh hain ki mata pita ki seva bacche karte hain. Ab tak to koi kathinaai nahi hai ees riti main. Lekin aap ko kya lagta hain? Kay mata pita sirf bacchon ki parvarsih ke liye hi hain? Kya unko apne bacchon se seva ki apeksha rakhni chahiye?

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Old July 18th, 2002, 03:19 PM
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Its not smart to have such expectations these days. Parents should not spend all their savings for kids' (marriages, education etc). They should keep money for their old age FIRST, and then help kids with higher education, marriage etc if they can.

Apna dhyaan khud ki rakhne ki kshamta sab-mein honi chaahiye. Kisi pe nirbhar nahin rehna chahiye. Isi mein samajhdaari hai. Svaavlambi hona chahiye. Agar bachay akal vaalay paida kiye hain aur wo seva karte hain... toh well and good. Na karein.. toh bhaaR mein jaayen salay.
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Old July 18th, 2002, 03:23 PM
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Old July 18th, 2002, 03:41 PM
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Kripya aapke vichar prastoot kare.
mere vichaar? mera vichaar yeh hai ki teri gaand ka bhoosada banaane ka sukh mujhe kab milega?

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Old July 18th, 2002, 03:43 PM
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mere vichaar? mera vichaar yeh hai ki teri gaand ka bhoosada banaane ka sukh mujhe kab milega?

tinda ji aap itna krodhit kyon hain? Apne mere liye itne tucch evam ghaitya shabdo ka prayig kyon kiya hain. Mera prashan saral tha. Yadi aap uttar ne dena chahe to theek hain kintu gande shabdo ka prayog karke vatavaran dushit na kare.
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Old July 18th, 2002, 04:04 PM
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tinda you know by now that some folks are a bit sensitive. So why rile thme up.. Savere was a good member and good entertainemnt...

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Old July 18th, 2002, 04:07 PM
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Old July 18th, 2002, 04:15 PM
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Yadi aap uttar ne dena chahe to theek hain kintu gande shabdo ka prayog karke vatavaran dushit na kare.
yaar savere agar aap yeh padh raahein hain tau kripya waapis aa jayen, mei yeh ghatiya (aapki defination meri nahin) shabd aap pe dubara nahin prayog karunga.

jahan tak rahi vatavaran ki baat, woh tau mei paad shaad maar ke dushit kar doonga, hopefully aap at least yeh mind nahin karenge (maaf karna yeh choota sa joke mei resist nahin kar paaya )
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What you think is good culture? Our way or American way?

Kripya aapke vichar prastoot kare.
Late train ab aap to challe gaye ... ab kiya fayda reply dall kar ...
If you come back let me know and we will have some fighting vighting on this issue for I do not agree with you ... I think western way is better ...

PM mar de vaapas aane par ...
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Old July 18th, 2002, 08:28 PM
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Re: Mata Pita ki jimmedari kab khatam hoti hain? When parents responsibility is over?

What you think is good culture? Our way or American way?
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Our culture is good for our people and American culture is good for american people
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Old July 18th, 2002, 10:47 PM
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i agree with tantrik. western concept seems to be better.

in india what happens people tend to stop at 40-45 and PASS ON their frustrated ambitions to children. Now my child has to do well and bring honour to US. I feel this is a form of 'giving up' and putting unnecessary pressure and tension on children.

Given this situation some children also tend to take parents for granted until they enter into middle age.
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Old July 19th, 2002, 02:18 AM
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Actually maa baap ko aur bhi zaada reckless ho jaana chahiye after kids are born and especially so when they become a little cognizant of their surroundings....jo rokda jaaydaad etc ikathha kiya hai use full udaana chahiye on enjoyment....so that kids say things like 'a baapu studgiri sikhaa na...mereko bhi tere jaise sabse bada khilaadi ban na hai....' or maybe ' daddy oye yaar mereko lassi ki factory daalni hai...kuchh chai paani hoga kya?'

parents should be a source of competition for their kids(momy aap skirt thodi lamba pehna keejiye....mere collaze ke ladke mereko aapki PA samajh ke appointments maangte rehte hain)....

Ek to bacche paida bhi karo upar se ullu ke pathhe upar hi chadh jaate hain...udhar se budhaapa aa jaata hai...
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Parents ki responsibility kabhi khatam nahin hoti. Financial support may no longer be needed when the kids apne pairon pe khade ho jaten hai, but emotional support always provide karni hoti hai.
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Old July 19th, 2002, 08:23 AM
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I am in absolute favour of the American system of parenting .

That is best both for the chid as well as for the parents

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