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View Poll Results: Has she rightly managed her troubles.
Yes, there is no harm. Why should she suppress her needs only because her husband is incapable. 0 0%
Probably yes, but she should not have done with her FIL 0 0%
Probably yes, but she should have done with only BIL. 1 20.00%
No. She is a slut. 4 80.00%
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Old June 2nd, 2011, 07:27 AM
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Re: Son demands illicit relation with mother - बेटा भी बुरी नज़र से देखता है

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Yeah - right. Nowhere does it say she was raped. What does kamzori kafaayda uthaya mean? That she was vulnerable and they seduced her. Well, the men are no doubt lowlife assholes - but she could have resisted too.

So dhurru is correct - she wanted a man. She got more than one - thats her issue.
Should we coin a new phrase or condition? Say call this as 'Draupadi Complex' ?
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Re: Son demands illicit relation with mother - बेटा भी बुरी नज़र से देखता है

Nobody around this woman thinks what is happening is repulsive. Why does she think it is repulsive? Repulsive is all in the mind.

I eat chicken. Actually thoroughly enjoy eating chicken. My friend finds it repulsive that I eat chicken. why? it is all in the mind.

Does your girlfriend / wife give you a blowjob? Many girls I know do not. They find blowjobs repulsive. Why? it is all in the mind.

My recommendation: Enjoy life. Enjoy the fact that she is getting so many males ready to satisfy her.
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Re: Son demands illicit relation with mother - बेटा भी बुरी नज़र से देखता है

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Yeah - right. Nowhere does it say she was raped. What does kamzori kafaayda uthaya mean? That she was vulnerable and they seduced her. Well, the men are no doubt lowlife assholes - but she could have resisted too.

So dhurru is correct - she wanted a man. She got more than one - thats her issue.
Dhurru has not even responded in this post till now. How does that make him correct????
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Yeah - right. Nowhere does it say she was raped. What does kamzori kafaayda uthaya mean? That she was vulnerable and they seduced her. Well, the men are no doubt lowlife assholes - but she could have resisted too.

So dhurru is correct - she wanted a man. She got more than one - thats her issue.
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She didnt sound like she wanted it in the first place. she said, "र इसी कारण मेरे देवरों ने मेरी कमज़ोरी का फायदा उठाकर मुझसे संबंध बना लिए। एक दिन ससुर ने देख लिया तो उन्होंने पति का डर दिलाकर मुझसे संबंध बना लिया।"

Clearly, she didnt want this.
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'Cos a woman has needs just like a man. And because she cannot visit male prostitutes... or gigolos... without bringing shame on herself (in our society), this probably seemed like a good way out for her
like rakhi said, she is not saying 'she wanted a man' or 'she wanted sex'. thats not the meaning of 'meri kamzori ka fayda uthaya' here. she means that her man wasnt capable enough to 'protect' her or speak-up and .. others took advantage of her.

women like the warmth of a male body, enjoy friction with it etc but r not mad for it like men. not most of them at least

men r men - hey bhagwan ye teri kaisi maya, do pairon ke beech mein tuney ye kya latkaya
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Re: Son demands illicit relation with mother - बेटा भी बुरी नज़र से देखता है

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'meri kamzori ka fayda uthaya'



men r men - hey bhagwan ye teri kaisi maya, do pairon ke beech mein tuney ye kya latkaya
kamzori ka fayda.... what exactly was her kamjori ... that her hubby was ill or something and SHE wanted sex and she was desperate. that was her "kamzori" and davers took "faayda" of her kamzori.

so she should stop telling that its illicit. she started it.

women are women-- ya khuda ye teri kaisi khudaai ... do pairon ke beech main kaisi cheez banayi ...
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Re: Son demands illicit relation with mother - बेटा भी बुरी नज़र से देखता है

where is the...I DONT GIVE A FUCK option
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Re: Son demands illicit relation with mother - बेटा भी बुरी नज़र से देखता है

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Yeah - right. Nowhere does it say she was raped. What does kamzori kafaayda uthaya mean? That she was vulnerable and they seduced her. Well, the men are no doubt lowlife assholes - but she could have resisted too.

So dhurru is correct - she wanted a man. She got more than one - thats her issue.
Melly, what I have deduced is from what she has written. What you have deduced is from what you have assumed.
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Re: Son demands illicit relation with mother - बेटा भी बुरी नज़र से देखता है

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where is the...I DONT GIVE A FUCK option
i second that one
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Yeah - right. Nowhere does it say she was raped. What does kamzori kafaayda uthaya mean? That she was vulnerable and they seduced her. Well, the men are no doubt lowlife assholes - but she could have resisted too.

So dhurru is correct - she wanted a man. She got more than one - thats her issue.
what are you talking about? I did not participate in this thread...until now
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what are you talking about? I did not participate in this thread...until now
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I meant sane ...
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Badrisadbhai pai and Echracha pai, I don't think the woman is complaining about her relationships with bils and fils. She may even be blessing her stars that she does not undergo frustration and desperation. Her only complain is about her son also demanding some of it... and this is indeed unreal... and she is hoping to get a solution where na laati bhi na toote aur saap bhi kada na ho. Now tell me, how will a NGO help her out in such a situation

What she needs is some delicacy to handle this situation. Maybe one of the bils/fil can talk to the son and remind/inspire him that it does not happen this way. Maybe they can privately take him to a pro and get his hearts-fill... satisfied. After all she gave so much to them... can't they give back this much
Bhai mere... thoda sensitive ho jaao. She finally started saying something when she saw the last straw coming. Doesn't mean she enjoyed the load on her back. Be sensitive ... or better lets keep from commenting anything.
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Re: Son demands illicit relation with mother - बेटा भी बुरी नज़र से देखता है

Wait ... there is more. Here is more from Bawara Sir's link ... Hindi daily ... Navbharat Times ... printed version arrives at many middle class homes in North India ... it was not long ago when you went to corner book store to rent such stories ... Mastram has gone mainstream ... India ... only in India.

9 May 2011, 1224 hrs IST,नवभारतटाइम्स.कॉम
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मेरी शादी हो गई है और मैं अपनी पत्नी से बहुत प्यार करता हूं। वह भी मुझसे बहुत प्यार करती है। हमारी शादी को एक साल हो गया है। इस बीच पिछले 6 महीने से पत्नी की मां के साथ मेरे शारीरिक संबंध हैं और अब वह मेरे बच्चे की मां बनने वाली हैं। मैंने उनसे अबॉर्शन कराने को कहा , मगर वह इसके लिए तैयार नहीं हैं। वह बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहती हैं। मेरे ससुर जी का देहांत दो साल पहले हो चुका है। पत्नी को नहीं पता है कि मेरे अपनी सास के साथ संबंध है। अब मैं क्या करूं ?

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Wait ... there is more. Here is more from Bawara Sir's link ... Hindi daily ... Navbharat Times ... printed version arrives at many middle class homes in North India ... it was not long ago when you went to corner book store to rent such stories ... Mastram has gone mainstream ... India ... only in India.

9 May 2011, 1224 hrs IST,नवभारतटाइम्स.कॉम
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मेरी शादी हो गई है और मैं अपनी पत्नी से बहुत प्यार करता हूं। वह भी मुझसे बहुत प्यार करती है। हमारी शादी को एक साल हो गया है। इस बीच पिछले 6 महीने से पत्नी की मां के साथ मेरे शारीरिक संबंध हैं और अब वह मेरे बच्चे की मां बनने वाली हैं। मैंने उनसे अबॉर्शन कराने को कहा , मगर वह इसके लिए तैयार नहीं हैं। वह बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहती हैं। मेरे ससुर जी का देहांत दो साल पहले हो चुका है। पत्नी को नहीं पता है कि मेरे अपनी सास के साथ संबंध है। अब मैं क्या करूं ?

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No problem...Mama Bhanja (aur Saaley Behnoi) ki jodi khoob banegi

On a more serious thought...just have MIL and wife to have delivery in secret...and then adopt both as your own...tell wife that this is necessary to save her mother's reputation

Problem solved
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No problem...Mama Bhanja (aur Saaley Behnoi) ki jodi khoob banegi

On a more serious thought...just have MIL and wife to have delivery in secret...and then adopt both as your own...tell wife that this is necessary to save her mother's reputation

Problem solved
Either these newspapers are catering to a 'particular' section of their audience or this is for real.
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