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Old June 15th, 2011, 07:28 AM
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My Gawd!! What a story - is it for real??

I have personally gone thru a lot in life (as have almost everyone). Yet, I'm not confident that the next crisis will not sink me.

We all say that we will never commit suicide. But then a crisis comes which we cannot even fathom. It disorients us. It takes a loooong time for the pain to pass. But then, our perception of the world changes. That is maturity. W get settled and comfortable in the newer, broader belief system. Then another crisis come on................

Shit!!!!!!
I have been through tough shit too and felt it was end of the world. But as you said, you just have to sort of distance yourself and become shameless or perfect word in Marathi 'nirlajja'. Once you have the 'ok, who the fuck cares? I dont give a fuck' type attitude, you can really move on.
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Old June 15th, 2011, 07:30 AM
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Was she a geek? wow Studious , hardworking brainy nerds impress me a lot
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I have been through tough shit too and felt it was end of the world. But as you said, you just have to sort of distance yourself and become shameless or perfect word in Marathi 'nirlajja'. Once you have the 'ok, who the fuck cares? I dont give a fuck' type attitude, you can really move on.
but what if u really care?
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but what if u really care?
Still, you should realise that there's no point mooning about it, lock up your pain in a compartment in your heart and throw away the key, and move on..


Personally I feel that she didn't give enough time for the marriage to work and understand each other and adjust. Still, sad event for everyone.
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Still, you should realise that there's no point mooning about it, lock up your pain in a compartment in your heart and throw away the key, and move on..


Personally I feel that she didn't give enough time for the marriage to work and understand each other and adjust. Still, sad event for everyone.
Easier said than done... Some people are weak minded , as all think she was ... They are weak minded n they can not help it guys. Theek hai , as dolly said by calling the sucide help center she could have gotten some help which could have changed her mind plus saved her life but i guess she didnot want to coz she was like that , Weak minded . Some people are insensitive n indifferent n they remain the same for all their lives right , break-ups or hurting other people does affect them so in a similar way some people are affected by such matters a lot n they can not do anything about it at all. She could not tolerate the pain .... but sucide was not right for sure.
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She was a Bihari for sure
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She was a Bihari for sure
whateverrrr !! baharis here ,on Ec, suck . Was that racist btw
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I have personally gone thru a lot in life (as have almost everyone). Yet, I'm not confident that the next crisis will not sink me.

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Shit!!!!!!
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All the more reason to have a support structure where you can talk openly about your feelings . The mind plays terrible games and only with communication the right perspective emerges .
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charchapai,

I have been through tough shit too and felt it was end of the world. But as you said, you just have to sort of distance yourself and become shameless or perfect word in Marathi 'nirlajja'. Once you have the 'ok, who the fuck cares? I dont give a fuck' type attitude, you can really move on.

We have known each other for a long time. You are one of the most extra-ordinary men I have met. But everyone is not like that. A lot of people "snap" under pressure - and I have seen people do that - some close friends too.

I know a guy who was brilliant - board ranker in SSC. Then engineer. He married a very rich family girl and became a ghar jawai. He left his job and worked in his father in law's factory and became a Director on Board. Had kids. Then marriage turned sour. There came a thud!!!!

In a moment he had no wife, no kids, no house, no car, no job. His own watchman refused him entry in his house. Shitt!!!!

He totally collapsed. Completely. Has not recovered even now. Just too many issues from all sides. Bad man. Bad.
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charchapai,

I have been through tough shit too and felt it was end of the world. But as you said, you just have to sort of distance yourself and become shameless or perfect word in Marathi 'nirlajja'. Once you have the 'ok, who the fuck cares? I dont give a fuck' type attitude, you can really move on.

We have known each other for a long time. You are one of the most extra-ordinary men I have met. But everyone is not like that. A lot of people "snap" under pressure - and I have seen people do that - some close friends too.

I know a guy who was brilliant - board ranker in SSC. Then engineer. He married a very rich family girl and became a ghar jawai. He left his job and worked in his father in law's factory and became a Director on Board. Had kids. Then marriage turned sour. There came a thud!!!!

In a moment he had no wife, no kids, no house, no car, no job. His own watchman refused him entry in his house. Shitt!!!!

He totally collapsed. Completely. Has not recovered even now. Just too many issues from all sides. Bad man. Bad.
you talk as if monetary collapse/loss is the biggest loss
real loss is hardly ever about money..
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i did not know अनुपम could mean something negative too..
alankar hai bandhu .... jis paristhithi me yeh chand prayog kiya hai maine... yeh 'vipreet alankar' ban gaya hai.

alankar ! naam to suna hoga? - chekanupras, vrityanupras, etcetc...



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alankar hai bandhu .... jis paristhithi me yeh chand prayog kiya hai maine... yeh 'vipreet alankar' ban gaya hai.

alankar ! naam to suna hoga?



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u mean senior² B did not mean 'vipreet alankar'? in the original verse, 'अनुपम ' means 'extremely nice'?
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