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Old September 27th, 2006, 01:13 AM
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I have just tried to find out ten signs mentioned herewith, which you may find in your partner and be careful then and there.

1. Changing attitude toward your relationship: more argumentative, critical or distant -- less affectionate -- increased need for "space"

2. Unexplained absences: staying later at work -- leaving the office for lunch more often -- spending more time "with friends" or pursuing a new hobby during evenings and weekends --frequently off running lengthy "errands"

3. Increase in personal expenses: seems to go through pocket money at a faster rate -- credit card spending jumps

4. Changing telephone use patterns: spends more time on the phone -- seems anxious to be first to answer phone when it rings -- mysterious incoming calls, hang-ups, "wrong numbers" -- suddenly "needs" a new cellphone or pager

5. Greater attention to personal appearance: begins a crash diet or exercise program -- trendy new wardrobe, fragrance, hairstyle or nails

6. Added interest in the mail: wants to limit your access to it, especially phone bills, bank, and credit card statements -- personal letters (but probably not postcards) from a long-lost "friend" or "relative"

7. Articles of unknown origin: slips of paper with names, phone numbers, dates/times/locations stashed in pockets, wallet or purse -- receipts showing unmentioned purchases -- matchbooks from unknown bars or restaurants -- strange cigarette, gum or food wrappers in vehicle

8. Mysterious bite marks, bruises, scratches, skin irritations: canít explain how "that got there"

9. Changing sex drive: decreased interest in sex -- more aggressive/hostile during sex and less tender/romantic -- newfound knowledge regarding a previously unexplored technique or position

10. Unexplained odor or stain: comes home smelling of cologne or tobacco that is clearly not their own -- lipstick on shirt collar -- stained clothing.

I wish that all the couples married and living happily married life. But donít be afraid but be cautious and try to find out what circumstances had led him or her to such relationship.After all both male and female are human beings and human psychology,physical demand, demand of love and affection(ignored or denied) or less interest in sexual relations,less
aggressiveness on the part of female. may be some of the reasons. Some times everything appears ok but certainly there is something in the mind of either male or female, which attract him or her towards another person.
Many a times, huasband or wife are not at wrong path but circumstances just arrives and it happens.

But we may be attentive and careful for our better half with love and affection,proper caring and dedication to each other.
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good posting yaar. looks like serious research stuff.
do u suggest , we take a print out of this post and chipkao in our homes ?
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also .....

-->Visiting LalMirchi forum regularly
-->surfing porn on web
-->buying mobilephone with a camera
--> Clearing history in browser.

yess...all this could also be ..
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also .....

-->Visiting LalMirchi forum regularly
-->surfing porn on web
-->buying mobilephone with a camera
--> Clearing history in browser.

yess...all this could also be ..
Ha ha ha ha h... Indian bhai... our respective wives are comfortable in the knowledge that anyone visiting echarcha regularly is really not looking for outside sex! Ha ha ha ha.. We are dumb enough to be confined to echarcha alone. Look at me.. I have become dumber every year since 2000 when I started echarcha Dont worry... all of us regular members on this board are not in danger of affairs and breaking our wive's heart

Imagine you have an affair. What are you going to say to impress your hot date? I visit echarcha!! ??
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Imagine you have an affair. What are you going to say to impress your hot date? I visit echarcha!! ??
Well I can say that I have been on 3 polls at echarcha ... I would not mention that I lost my deposit on all 3 though
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Well I can say that I have been on 3 polls at echarcha ... I would not mention that I lost my deposit on all 3 though
Echarcha's hosting and licence fees are paid by selling my nude and semi nude kathakali performance photos?that should surely get you laid over and over......in kuchipudi poses offcourse...
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8. Mysterious bite marks, bruises, scratches, skin irritations: canít explain how "that got there"

Kya bataun shaanti behen...iss hafte harr roz inko office ke toilet mein ek kaala kutta alag alag jagah kaat leta hai...office ka kutta hai...kuchh keh bhi naheen sakte...
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Kya bataun shaanti behen...iss hafte harr roz inko office ke toilet mein ek kaala kutta alag alag jagah kaat leta hai...office ka kutta hai...kuchh keh bhi naheen sakte...
Behen....a polite version for Behenchod?
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also .....

-->Visiting LalMirchi forum regularly
-->surfing porn on web
-->buying mobilephone with a camera
--> Clearing history in browser.

yess...all this could also be ..
Here's more bro,

Giving tips on how to patao girls.

Being the first to welcome new female members.
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Imagine you have an affair. What are you going to say to impress your hot date? I visit echarcha!! ?? :
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That would be the last date for sure
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Here's more bro,

1)Giving tips on how to patao girls.


2)Being the first to welcome new female members.
1) Was sharing bachelorhood expereince, no hanky panky things after marraige

2)First time i did ..and what did i get ? ..she called me BHAI

now tell me ..this guy vivek is only pointing to our failures to have an adventorous after marraige life.
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