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Old May 1st, 2003, 12:11 AM
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What would you do if your spouse confesses to you about an extra-marital affair

Inspired by the extra-marital affairs thread. What would be your reaction if your spouse confesses to you about an extra-marital affair he/she has been having, however regrets it now and would like you to forgive him/her.

Would you:

- Kick him/her out of the house

- Let him/her stay in the house, for the sake of children, but it won't be the same relationship again

- Forgive and forget.
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Old May 1st, 2003, 12:22 AM
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Would you: - Forgive and forget.
No way. It is finish. No way.



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Would you: - Kick him/her out of the house
No. Can never do that. She made it home. It wont be home without her.

I will leave!




What choice will I have. Everything I own is in her name anyway.
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I forgot to answer my own question.

I'll forget and start over again.
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Re: What would you do if your spouse confesses to you about an extra-marital affair

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Would you:

- Kick him/her out of the house

No way

- Let him/her stay in the house, for the sake of children, but it won't be the same relationship again

Its not a question of doing this. I will stay in the house, If she wants to leave she can, but it will be her wish.

The relationship may not be over, but it will take a lot of time to be back but it will never be what it was. Having said that, it depends on what kind of affair it was.

- Forgive and forget.

Nope.


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I'll forget and start over again.
Of course, you will. You drove him to other woman in the first place with all your naggings, complaints and headaches ... Poor guy!







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Of course, you will. You drove him to other woman in the first place with all your naggings, complaints and headaches ... Poor guy!



But he came back to me. So guess who won?
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I forgot to answer my own question.

I'll forget and start over again.
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Of course, you will. You drove him to other woman in the first place with all your naggings, complaints and headaches ... Poor guy!


On a more serious note what would drive my other half away is my LACK OF naggings and complaints and headaches. He considers me very indifferent. He feels I am more interested in EC than in him and the family.
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But he came back to me. So guess who won?
Some men may enjoy such treatment and need to come back for more ...



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On a more serious note what would drive my other half away is my LACK OF naggings and complaints and headaches. He considers me very indifferent. He feels I am more interested in EC than in him and the family.
You are more interested in echarcha (sunit) than ur hubby
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You are more interested in echarcha (sunit) than ur hubby
Kya baat kar rahe ho, yaar? Sunit calls me didi. Kyon khaali peeli Sunit aur uski biwi mein daraar paida kar rahe ho?

Agar aapke samajh mein nahin aaya to hum bataaye dete hain. Hum EC forum ki baat kar rahe the (said in Basanti style).
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I want undivided love from my wife...if she loves someone else, then i guess i have some fault in me. I will let her have her way.. and move away from her.
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I want undivided love from my wife...if she loves someone else, then i guess i have some fault in me. I will let her have her way.. and move away from her.
But if she comes back to you saying sorry that she'd made a mistake.
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Re: What would you do if your spouse confesses to you about an extra-marital affair

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Inspired by the extra-marital affairs thread. What would be your reaction if your spouse confesses to you about an extra-marital affair he/she has been having, however regrets it now and would like you to forgive him/her.

Would you:

- Kick him/her out of the house

- Let him/her stay in the house, for the sake of children, but it won't be the same relationship again

- Forgive and forget.
add a twist.

What if the extra-marital affair if homo/lesbian?

My repsonse would be Great Honey! how about menage-a-trois?
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Honestly, I do not know.

It is one thing to speculate in a light-hearted discussion and another to be faced with such a situation. You may think one way, but there is no knowing if that is how would react under stressful situations.
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