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Old April 30th, 2003, 01:03 AM
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Thumbs up Pre- Marital / Extra- Marital ?

Its an Hot issue .........

In Indian Culture , society does not allow both these practices .

However , many people ( Males as well as Females ) are indulged in either both these practices or in any one of these .

Let us discuss the fair and unfair on this topic .......

My views are ....

Pre-Marital is acceptable to that extent till it is unavoidable .
Extra- Marital .......... No way .
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Old April 30th, 2003, 01:06 AM
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And what's wrong with extra-marital?

Suppose one spouse is unable to satisfy his/her partner, what's wrong if the other goes out?

If you don't get enough food at home, don't you go out to a restaurant?

Both are appetites. So why is one right and the other wrong?
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Old April 30th, 2003, 01:10 AM
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Netra ,

U may be rite .....

Baat ek issue ki hai , kya ehtical hai kya nahin ?

Ghar mein khana nahin mile to restaurent mein jake khaya ja sakta hai , Indian culture does not object on that . Yahan baat hai Niyam aur sidhdhanto ki , kya theek aur kya galat ?
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Old April 30th, 2003, 01:18 AM
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Netra ,

U may be rite .....

Baat ek issue ki hai , kya ehtical hai kya nahin ?

Ghar mein khana nahin mile to restaurent mein jake khaya ja sakta hai , Indian culture does not object on that . Yahan baat hai Niyam aur sidhdhanto ki , kya theek aur kya galat ?
No I am not considering what's ethical. After all ethics have been made by humans.

But let's see things logically.

Suppose I am unable to give my other half what he wants either because I am not interested or because I am unable to because of a physical handicap would it be right for me to stop him from going elsewhere to seek pleasure?

Whether he goes or not is beside the point. But it would be very selfish of me to hold him back. What do you think?
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Old April 30th, 2003, 01:41 AM
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If you don't get enough food at home, don't you go out to a restaurant?
I suppose you can go out with your partner to a restaurant ... but you can't do the same for extra-marital affair.

Aur shadi ke baad to ghar ki murgi daal barabar hoti hai .. Agar kisi ko bahar mooh marne ki aadat hai .... woh ghar se kabhi satisfy nahi hoga.

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Ur talking specific

Netra ,

We need to talk general not specific ........

Situation based discussion se dispute ho jayega .
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We need to talk general not specific ........

Situation based discussion se dispute ho jayega .
I am talking general. I just gave an example. Did you think I was physically handicapped?
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Jo milta hai usme kush raho.
Aur kuchh mil hi nahi raha hai to?
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Old April 30th, 2003, 01:50 AM
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I am talking general. I just gave an example. Did you think I was physically handicapped?
Arre nahin Netra ,

Hamne aisa to nahin kaha tha na ?
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Arre nahin Netra ,

Hamne aisa to nahin kaha tha na ?
I know yaar. I was just kidding. Dar gaye na?
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Aur kuchh mil hi nahi raha hai to?
(Please excuse the language) ... kuchh bhi nahi mil raha ho to hilate raho.

If you don't get it .. then probably you are not worth it. Khud may koi kami hogi jo partner satisfy nahi kar paata.
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I know yaar. I was just kidding. Dar gaye na?
Haan Darr to gaye , Hamne socha ki tum agar gussa ho gayin to hamara kya hoga ? .... lol
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Haan Darr to gaye , Hamne socha ki tum agar gussa ho gayin to hamara kya hoga ? .... lol
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How come nobody found the following to counter my argument about appetite?

A person dies from lack of food, never from lack of sex.
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You don't have to worry about me getting angry. I rarely do in real life and never with E-Charchans.
Ab kya bole Netra ?

Ye to No. dial hone se pehle phone dead ho gaya .... ( Kidding )
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