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Old July 10th, 2013, 09:36 AM
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Re: Sorry to say but many Indian men are shameless!

This is a forum where Rakhiji wanted to vent out her frustration and she has done so.

Apart from Kalidas no one condemned this outright because we would be dishonest if we say that we would totally avoid looking at a woman in a swimming suit. In my own case i would look twice or so at some ladies (say in a bikini or some one more attractive than others - depends on the situation).

Most of the guys here probably would glance a second look but not to the point of annoying the lady, particularly, if she is having a good time with her kid.

I doubt if the guys she mentioned were actually ogling. Probably they were conservative guys who were somehow shocked at seeing a desi woman in the pool and would never imagine their wives in the same position. Whatever be their thoughts, such staring is condemnable. Probably if this persists, a good way out is to complain to the facility as Kalidas had suggested.
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Old July 10th, 2013, 09:54 AM
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True..... Anyone would be dishonest if we say that we would totally avoid looking at a woman in a swimming suit.

Except they found no pain in their package check test.

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This is happening because most Indians are barbarians who don't the meaning of women rights.


I'm glad we got you here. Could you get started on civilizing the barbarians?
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Old July 10th, 2013, 10:34 AM
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kd, jyada gentleman ban-ney ki koshish mat karo

Ladies, staring men in NO WAY mean that the lady is "looking for sex" or is vulnerable. few men (gunda budmash types) may mean that.
There is a big difference between "checking out" a female and staring at a female with saliva dripping out of your mouth. I'm sure Rakhi wasn't complaining because some guy "checked her out". She's upset because these guys were relentless.

If one has to be a gentleman to condemn such behavior, then the bar has been set way too low.
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I'm glad we got you here. Could you get started on civilizing the barbarians?
One must cure the hypocrisy in Indian society before any kind of behavioral progress.

The Indian society's hypocrisy starts right at the family level.

A man will respect his sister as much as he disrespects other women.

Parents enjoy stupid love stories in movies, but disapprove of their son/daughter's sexual freedom and choice of marital partner.

Gender discrimination against the girl child throughout Indian society.etc. etc.

The path towards environment is a long road indeed for us Indian males.
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There is a big difference between "checking out" a female and staring at a female with saliva dripping out of your mouth. I'm sure Rakhi wasn't complaining because some guy "checked her out". She's upset because these guys were relentless.

If one has to be a gentleman to condemn such behavior, then the bar has been set way too low.

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One must cure the hypocrisy in Indian society before any kind of behavioral progress.

The Indian society's hypocrisy starts right at the family level.

A man will respect his sister as much as he disrespects other women.

Parents enjoy stupid love stories in movies, but disapprove of their son/daughter's sexual freedom and choice of marital partner.

Gender discrimination against the girl child throughout Indian society.etc. etc.

The path towards environment is a long road indeed for us Indian males.
Fair enough. You're talking of the social attitudes of men who live in India. You were not talking of men who migrate, right? Those who migrate are subject to the influences of a significantly different social environment.
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True..... Anyone would be dishonest if we say that we would totally avoid looking at a woman in a swimming suit.

Except they found no pain in their package check test.

what exactly does that mean?
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Fair enough. You're talking of the social attitudes of men who live in India. You were not talking of men who migrate, right? Those who migrate are subject to the influences of a significantly different social environment.
Such despicable behavior is not exclusive to Indians localized in India.
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