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Old April 12th, 2013, 12:42 PM
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Techie ends life, names wife, mom-in-law

This is my first cousin.

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BANGALORE: A techie committed suicide by hanging himself from the ceiling fan of his PG accommodation in Shantiniketan Layout, off Old Airport Road on Tuesday, allegedly due to harassment by his wife and mother-in-law.

Manoj Kumar, 36, employee of an IT major, has left behind a note saying he is taking the extreme step unable to bear the harassment from his wife and mother-in-law. A resident of RT Nagar, Manoj Kumar married a woman who is also a techie, two-and-a-half years ago. The couple has a one-year-old son.

Manoj Kumar's brother, Jitendra Kumar, has told the police that Manoj was repeatedly threatened by his wife and mother-in-law that they would lodge a dowry harassment case against him. The threats had forced Manoj to move out of his home and live alone at the PG accomodation.
HAL police have registered a case against the mother-daughter duo under Section 306 of IPC for abetment to suicide and are further investigating the case.


http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bangalore/Techie-ends-life-names-wife-mom-in-law/articleshow/19469289.cms
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Old April 12th, 2013, 12:47 PM
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This is my first cousin.
I am so sorry. My condolences.

Edit: Assuming Manoj is your cousin.
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Old April 12th, 2013, 01:06 PM
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Assuming Manoj is your cousin.
It could be the mother-in-law.
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Old April 12th, 2013, 01:23 PM
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This is my first cousin.

Kaun ? Marnay walay ki Biwi ki uski saas
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Old April 12th, 2013, 02:08 PM
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Yes, Manoj is my cousin
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Old April 12th, 2013, 02:17 PM
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Re: Techie ends life, names wife, mom-in-law

Very sad.

Bitter truth of life and I say it very seriously.. Men must beware of women.. they can make your life hell or end it as it happened here.
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Old April 12th, 2013, 02:29 PM
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Yes, Manoj is my cousin
Did he take dahej?
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Old April 12th, 2013, 03:37 PM
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No he did not. Infact he paid for his wedding.

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Old April 12th, 2013, 03:41 PM
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No he did not. Infact he paid for his wedding.
But why did the wife and mother in law threaten him with all this? What was their motivation.
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But why did the wife and mother in law threaten him with all this? What was their motivation.
Sadistic pleasure?
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Old April 12th, 2013, 06:58 PM
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Sadistic pleasure?
Not really.

I'm not sure why somebody would post a personal tragedy of this nature on a public forum. I'm sorry for his loss, but I'm not going to immediately verbally hang the mother-in-law and daughter without hearing the other side.
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Old April 12th, 2013, 07:52 PM
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Not really.

I'm not sure why somebody would post a personal tragedy of this nature on a public forum. I'm sorry for his loss, but I'm not going to immediately verbally hang the mother-in-law and daughter without hearing the other side.
It is a sad state of affairs today. A law that is intended to protect uneducated and helpless women is being misused by literate and wicked women to humiliate and dominate men.... and nothing can be done about it.

What Manoj did was not suicide. He used his death to get back to his tormentors. There is no way now the mother and daughter can escape the punishment.
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Sadistic pleasure?
There's a problem with the anti-dowry law.

Remember all those news reports about women "accidentally" getting burnt in the kitchen? Most of the time, these were not accidents, but the woman being burnt deliberately at her in-laws' place because she did not bring enough dowry. At some point, this goaded Bharatiya law-makers into action. They thought they would put a real strict law in place. Which means you lock up the husband, and make the crime non-bailable. They tweaked a few definitions here. The crime here is not merely harassing a woman for dowry; it is, as well, a crime to take dowry, even if given voluntarily.

So the woman files a complaint, and on her word, the not-so-dear hubby is sent to jail. If she names her in-laws, the in-laws go to jail too. Non-bailable. So you rot in jail while the trial, at its own leisurely pace, winds through the court system. I dunno if there's a way to get bail if you are charged under these sections.

Some people will get real nasty to each other when the marriage is falling apart. If the relationship heads south, some women have discovered that Bharatiya law-makers have provided them with a tool for revenge. Everyone knows about this, including the Supreme Court. There is at least one occasion I can remember when the Supreme Court said that the law was being misused by a few women.

I don't have stats, but I think the law has reduced the number of women who were "accidentally" getting burnt in the kitchen.

As well, a few men innocent men are being sent to jail by vengeful ex-wives.
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the law is being used to settle scores. 1 wrong woman & consider your life hell.
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This kind of incidents are not uncommon - just a wicked mind is what it takes.
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