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Old December 14th, 2004, 11:13 PM
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Is it really worth after working many years be an independent in India and marrying a NRI and comming to US and become House wife ( can't work) due to H4 Visa.?

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"Who should sacrifice first and to what extent ?"

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pros and cons, as with everything else. if you have a good career in india which you do not want to forgo then no, don't marry an NRI.

otherwise, go for it

but make sure he is not a coconut
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It is absolutley boring in US for house wives. If coming on h-4 be ready to downgrade your lifestyle to sitting at home watching tv or socializing with your gulti neighbors wives.
If you ready to do all that yes else the life of a house wife on h-4 in us is no differant than prison. Sounds harsh but true
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If you have a great life in India why marry an NRI..

DUH !!!!
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It is absolutley boring in US for house wives. If coming on h-4 be ready to downgrade your lifestyle to sitting at home watching tv or socializing with your gulti neighbors wives.
If you ready to do all that yes else the life of a house wife on h-4 in us is no differant than prison. Sounds harsh but true

go for a NRI who is closer to the final greencard if you are that concerned about sitting idle. that will minimize the sit-at-home-watch-oprah lifestyle.

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Re: Is It Worthmarrying an NRI?

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Is it really worth after working many years be an independent in India and marrying a NRI and comming to US and become House wife ( can't work) due to H4 Visa.?

Aap logon ki kya rai Hai?
Stop bargaining for Yams which are still in the earth ... an old Rajsthani saying. NRI? What NRI? H4 visa holders are not NRIs. They are wet behind the ear aardinary Indians in NRI diapers just like 99 pershent echarchans. They haven't earned the NRI title ... not yet ... looong way to go. You'll make a laughing stock of yourself if you went around telling friends that an NRI is courting you ... lie ... truth is H4 visa holder is just an aardinary ganwad Indian.

Having written that ... I am reminded of another Rajsthani saying and my better half just loves this inglis translationwa "women who go looking for a tame deerwa sometimes catch tigerwa".

Go ahead ... you'll never know. Your aardinary H4 Indian might just bring you the honors and make you a real ... true blue ... proud NRI wife number 1 (hopefully)!

About your independent lyphstyle in India. No worries ... you'll have sweet memories to remember while watching "days of our lives" ... you can always raise couple of kids. I mean as your title suggests ... 30 is good enough to become a doting mother to an aardinary H4 Indian's children.


edit: We do have phor or phive honorable NRIs but they are all married and fanatics (about being married). Good luck with your hunt!
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Mr.Yogi you are in Down Under . If you dont know something keep your trap closed. an NRI is a person who resides outside india for more than 6 months. So it doesn't matter on if he is on any alphbet of the visa (H,I ,J,K l, M,N,O P).

So anyone outside india for more than 6 months in calender year earns the NRI title (Ya baby ! ) and does not pay taxes in india. Simple.

BTW H-4 is the lady . The Launda is H-1 .

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shukriya30 what are you looking for in marriage? Are you looking forward to settling abroad? If yes, then marry an NRI.

Otherwise I dont see how a NRI is different from a regular Indian residing in India?
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Mr.Yogi you are in Down Under . If you dont know something keep your trap closed. an NRI is a person who resides outside india for more than 6 months. So it doesn't matter on if he is on any alphbet of the visa (H,I ,J,K l, M,N,O P).

So anyone outside india for more than 6 months in calender year earns the NRI title (Ya baby ! ) and does not pay taxes in india. Simple.

BTW H-4 is the lady . The Launda is H-1 .

Hamare Nagpur me saying hai

" Muh me ayaa Bak Diya
Gand me aaya Hag Diya "
Buri ... bahut burri aadat. Gulti ko choda aur pandrahinchee ka pakda! chee chee puppy shame. Baba, agar aap ko discuss hee karna hoyenga to why spoil garib kanya ko thread? I can feel your pain cause not long ago ... just like you ... I was just an aardinary Indian living overseas. Obvious ... you are H1 visa holding average Indian. That is no reason to pheel small. Did I ever claim that we NRIs are far superior to you H1? I did not.

Start another thread to discuss.




Shukirya ... darling I have to rush. Will get back to you first thing monday morning. 1941. I still remember staying awake, staring in to television screen, watching Nehru deliver his famous destiny speech on the midnight of 17th August 1946. I must have been about 12. Believe it or not ... there Color television was not yet discovered. We only had b/w television sets.

More on Monday.
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Dirty six months ... BhaYa you are referring to Indian customs. LOL. Give them a bottle of cheap scotch and they will bestow NRI title even upon week old Indian tourists.







Relax. I could not dream of leaving you frustrated. Just kidding mate mate. Just kidding. Have a good weekend. Enjoy.
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Re: Re: Is It Worthmarrying an NRI?

You Tantric Marwari
Kanjus If u do't know NRI then Open a grocery shop or Tamba Pital scrap shop like all Marwari.
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