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Old May 29th, 2009, 09:17 AM
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Unhappy Chitra Singh's daughter commits suicide

Monica Chowdhary (45), daughter of popular ghazal singer Chitra Singh committed suicide by hanging herself from the ceiling fan at her Bandra residence.

Monica was Chitra's daughter from an earlier marriage, but they all lived together after she married Jagjit Singh in 1969.

Zonal deputy commissioner of police, Niket Kaushik told MiD Day, "Monica was leading a disturbed family life and was suffering from depression for a long time."

Incidentally, Chitra and Jagjit's 19-year-old son Vivek also died in a road accident many years ago after which Chitra gave up singing.

The two had reportedly separated in the recent past.

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Monica Chowdhary (45), daughter of popular ghazal singer Chitra Singh committed suicide by hanging herself from the ceiling fan at her Bandra residence.

Monica was Chitra's daughter from an earlier marriage, but they all lived together after she married Jagjit Singh in 1969.

Zonal deputy commissioner of police, Niket Kaushik told MiD Day, "Monica was leading a disturbed family life and was suffering from depression for a long time."

Incidentally, Chitra and Jagjit's 19-year-old son Vivek also died in a road accident many years ago after which Chitra gave up singing.

The two had reportedly separated in the recent past.

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I am not a big fan of Chitra and often feel that her voice doesnt compliment Jagjit's but still like many of her solos.... it's really a bad news...
afaik, they are not legally separated and chitra can still be seen in big concerts of Jagjit's.
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Re: Chitra Singh's daughter commits suicide

Well I of the opinion that one must try to make the best of a wedlock ... no matter what the circumstance otherwise there is a huge spiritual impact on the offspring. In this case the individual was too weak. Some time ago one of the members of our community stated that there are occasions when separation is inevitable, and kids eventually understand.... well, I must say, I believe, kids never do, even when they grow old to become grand mums and grand dads... they always feel victimized. Most often the cause of separation is that neither party is ready to compromise of matters... This doesn't work ever. A leak proof relationship doesn't exist on earth. One must develop the skill to fix the drip. Spoken metaphorically. Invisible ink ki Jai !!
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. In this case the individual was too weak.
hmm..not quite sure i agree with this..depression hurts everywhere..until one can take it no more..
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hmm..not quite sure i agree with this..depression hurts everywhere..until one can take it no more..
maybe you are right ! Sometimes there can be too much trouble.
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Re: Chitra Singh's daughter commits suicide

We all attempt suicide of our feelings several times in our lives; Sooner or later we succeed. Yes, there are situations when separation is inevitable. If the couple stays in the marriage, they might go into depression and the consequences could be fatal. On the other hand, if they divorce/separate, it is bound to have an impact on the children, however grown up they are. Depression happens to people who do not know how to be sad. Itís very important to get him/her to get professional help the moment the suicidal thoughts occur.
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Who is Chitra Singh?
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Who is Chitra Singh?

gazal singer Jagjit singh's wife
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Re: Chitra Singh's daughter commits suicide

Its really a sad news.

Especially when the couple had also lost their son in an accident some time back.

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Who is Chitra Singh?
Chitra Singh is the wife of famous Gazal Gayak Jagjit Singh.
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gazal singer Jagjit singh's wife
Sad. Very sad.

Yes ... Honestbai ... I recall. Family tragedy has nothing to do with fame and money ... let's hope.
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We all attempt suicide of our feelings several times in our lives; Sooner or later we succeed.
Care to elaborate? I did not get this part.
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I did not get this part.
Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain.

Rakhi dear correct me If I m getting it wrong but I guess you are talking about the time when feelings failed/refuses to cop with the situation leads to traumatic psycology. one's heart and brain need to be very strong when this situation arrives... solutions are education, strong family relations, friends, blogwriting, strong decision making power etc.
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Re: Chitra Singh's daughter commits suicide

so sad...we had jaggus concert in our city next week. im sure that will be cancelled now.

poor chitra, as if losing one child was not enough....

i like her ghazals better than jaggus
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