Why I Left India (Again)

[viking]

Going to India and expecting the same infrastructure as in the west is like coming to eCharcha and trying to find people who are intelligent and who respond sensibly. It's not possible on EC, yet being on EC has it's own benefits!

[badriprasad]

Originally Posted by viking

coming to eCharcha and trying to find people who are intelligent and who respond sensibly. It's not possible on EC, yet being on EC has it's own benefits!

There is no reason for you to be disappointed, I had informed you as early as 3 years ago. Limitations are of your own making. All intelligent people here, don't blame us if all you can find is garbage. It takes one to know one doesn't even apply here. Your state of mind sets the tone. Let me give you a fine example ... go to this link. Some guy has posted a news item. He thinks EC is an online place to copy/paste rehashed news. I wished to remind him ... posting news without personal comment to encourage discussion is defeating the purpose of this site. I didn't because for sure poster thinks too highly of himself. We both know the truth ... don't we?

[smellyfinger]

Originally Posted by badriprasad

There is no reason for you to be disappointed, I had informed you as early as 3 years ago. Limitations are of your own making. All intelligent people here, don't blame us if all you can find is garbage. It takes one to know one doesn't even apply here. Your state of mind sets the tone. Let me give you a fine example ... go to this link. Some guy has posted a news item. He thinks EC is an online place to copy/paste rehashed news. I wished to remind him ... posting news without personal comment to encourage discussion is defeating the purpose of this site. I didn't because for sure poster thinks too highly of himself. We both know the truth ... don't we?

Badri bhai, please dont pick on Viking. If he feels that he is unable to find anyone here that has his level of intelligence, he is probably correct (although, over the years there have been a couple of posters who would qualify, IMHO). One thing you have to admire Viking is for his honesty. To be able to make a statement like that in an open forum shows his candor in posting and an acceptance of limitations - both within himself and this forum.

[viking]

Originally Posted by smellyfinger

Badri bhai, please dont pick on Viking. If he feels that he is unable to find anyone here that has his level of intelligence, he is probably correct (although, over the years there have been a couple of posters who would qualify, IMHO). One thing you have to admire Viking is for his honesty. To be able to make a statement like that in an open forum shows his candor in posting and an acceptance of limitations - both within himself and this forum.

...but I must agree that there are some who are not intelligent but at least honest enough to warn others of their low intellect by copy pasting from somewhere a warning and sticking it in the bottom of their every post and diassuading anyone into entering into an argument.

Yes I agree with the copy/paste warning/disclaimer : Never argue with idiots. They drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.

[jeetiaf]

this topic can never be discussed conclusively. it is like "is eating meat moral" type. there is nothing right or wrong in it, it is just difference of opinion based on individual experiences


jeetIAF

[kkkk]

Originally Posted by jeetiaf

this topic can never be discussed conclusively. it is like "is eating meat moral" type. there is nothing right or wrong in it, it is just difference of opinion based on individual experiences


jeetIAF

which topic are you writing about bhai? in true EC fashion we seem to have 2-3 running around - I think your comment applies to all of them
1) The one about which the thread was started
3) Viking's comment and Badri/Smelly's response

well, perhaps this one is never ending if you only talk about marriage in general
2) Shakti's marriage and Badri's advice/suggestion/warning/crib/rant

[jeetiaf]

yeah that is true

but this India versus foreign is almost impossible, and actually a discussion generally never leads to conclusion, be it echarcha or in family. Finally karte sab woh hai jo unke mann me hota hai

why I left India and why I live in India, bus opposite arguemts hi to likhne hain.

like we used to draw table of two columns while writing difference between plants and animals during primary classes.


jeetIAF

[kkkk]

Originally Posted by jeetiaf

yeah that is true

but this India versus foreign is almost impossible, and actually a discussion generally never leads to conclusion, be it echarcha or in family. Finally karte sab woh hai jo unke mann me hota hai

why I left India and why I live in India, bus opposite arguemts hi to likhne hain.

like we used to draw table of two columns while writing difference between plants and animals during primary classes.


jeetIAF

arre nahi bhai! Plants and animals mein to bahut farak hai. or are you saying living in India like plants and living in phoren is like animals? or vice-versa?

[jeetiaf]

Originally Posted by kkkk

arre nahi bhai! Plants and animals mein to bahut farak hai. or are you saying living in India like plants and living in phoren is like animals? or vice-versa?

you know what I meant

we live in the part of world that we like,for instance, I like to live in India in winters and hate places like Russia or England, but others may feel completely vice versa, its just a matter of opinion, that is it

jeetIAF

[sanjayt]

Originally Posted by jeetiaf

you know what I meant

we live in the part of world that we like,for instance, I like to live in India in winters and hate places like Russia or England, but others may feel completely vice versa, its just a matter of opinion, that is it

jeetIAF

Forget the weather. But please don't forget the most important criterion. Vitamin M ... Money.

[echarcha]

I am in India since 2011 .... and .... time to move out of India... to where? Not decided... but abhi busss ho gaya .....

And after being in the US for so long and then India for 5 plus years..... I think I can write a proper post and advise folks who are thinking of returning .....

[Napolean]

Originally Posted by echarcha

I am in India since 2011 .... and .... time to move out of India... to where? Not decided... but abhi busss ho gaya .....

And after being in the US for so long and then India for 5 plus years..... I think I can write a proper post and advise folks who are thinking of returning .....

There is only one reason to return - family. Blood relations are more precious/valuable than anything else.

[sgars]

Originally Posted by echarcha

And after being in the US for so long and then India for 5 plus years..... I think I can write a proper post and advise folks who are thinking of returning .....

Awaiting that.

[Aashika]

Originally Posted by echarcha

I am in India since 2011 .... and .... time to move out of India... to where? Not decided... but abhi busss ho gaya .....

And after being in the US for so long and then India for 5 plus years..... I think I can write a proper post and advise folks who are thinking of returning .....

Consider Canada. Don't go back to Sates.

[Sane Less]

Originally Posted by Aashika

Consider Canada. Don't go back to Sates.

Come back to States, Echracha pai. Trump will win and it will be a glorious future