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Old July 18th, 2018, 12:11 PM
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On an afterthought, what works for me is to stay a low level cybercoolie. No one will bother you for jobs and Money.
Possibly thats a better solution
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Shit, I was going to hit you up for some cash
That's too direct. First ask him which village is he form ...Then more personal questions like how many brothers and sister ? Who else is there is his family ?
How many times does he shit in a day ....... Wait , don't ask that , he may actually answer.....

Then pop the question......
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Old July 19th, 2018, 03:28 AM
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Re: How do you handle nosey desis at the work place?

A new contractor in our team was asking me many of such questions, as I helped him get set up.. I answered a few, but bugger even started asking where I bought milk for my toddler son, and started comparing how he buys organic only from Costco, then he compares his contracting company with mine.. I told him next do you wanna compare penis size?

one day he casually picks up my wallet lying on my desk right in front of me and starts checking it thoroughly .. I blasted him loudly in the team space.. few desi guys were later like dude I always thought you soft spoken.. if somebody gets on your nerves and does crap anybody will lose it

Another time I asked him on a Monday how was the party his contacting company’s threw on the weekend gone by.. his reply, mera company to tera se better hai, they don’t just give you lunch, they take you out for golf, have drinks there, with 3 course lunch and what not.. i lost my temper real bad, I mean I have hardly scolded anybody ever in my life like that.. told him he’ll always be a tennager.. he kept saying sorry and apologized
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A new contractor in our team was asking me many of such questions, as I helped him get set up.. I answered a few, but bugger even started asking where I bought milk for my toddler son, and started comparing how he buys organic only from Costco, then he compares his contracting company with mine.. I told him next do you wanna compare penis size?

one day he casually picks up my wallet lying on my desk right in front of me and starts checking it thoroughly .. I blasted him loudly in the team space.. few desi guys were later like dude I always thought you soft spoken.. if somebody gets on your nerves and does crap anybody will lose it

Another time I asked him on a Monday how was the party his contacting company’s threw on the weekend gone by.. his reply, mera company to tera se better hai, they don’t just give you lunch, they take you out for golf, have drinks there, with 3 course lunch and what not.. i lost my temper real bad, I mean I have hardly scolded anybody ever in my life like that.. told him he’ll always be a tennager.. he kept saying sorry and apologized
I pity you... what an asshole colleague!
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Old July 19th, 2018, 07:44 PM
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Hain na? My thoughts exactly go ahead 28Veergati pai, go ahead and ask me about tatas Either haan bolungi ya na
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Hain na? My thoughts exactly go ahead 28Veergati pai, go ahead and ask me about tatas Either haan bolungi ya na
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A new contractor in our team was asking me many of such questions, as I helped him get set up.. I answered a few, but bugger even started asking where I bought milk for my toddler son, and started comparing how he buys organic only from Costco, then he compares his contracting company with mine.. I told him next do you wanna compare penis size?

one day he casually picks up my wallet lying on my desk right in front of me and starts checking it thoroughly .. I blasted him loudly in the team space.. few desi guys were later like dude I always thought you soft spoken.. if somebody gets on your nerves and does crap anybody will lose it

Another time I asked him on a Monday how was the party his contacting company’s threw on the weekend gone by.. his reply, mera company to tera se better hai, they don’t just give you lunch, they take you out for golf, have drinks there, with 3 course lunch and what not.. i lost my temper real bad, I mean I have hardly scolded anybody ever in my life like that.. told him he’ll always be a tennager.. he kept saying sorry and apologized
That's it. That's red signal. Should take him to HR for "stealing" , especially you know this guy is an asshole.

Just curious, Is he a Gulti or Gujju ???
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That's it. That's red signal. Should take him to HR for "stealing" , especially you know this guy is an asshole.

Just curious, Is he a Gulti or Gujju ???
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