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Old April 28th, 2012, 10:34 PM
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Lonely Planet?

It so lonely at my side. Wifey and Son both left for India for 3 months. Will be back by the first week of August.

I am not sure what to do? I mean I have a hectic schedule (meditation + workout) in the morning and then office, but when I return home, it feels so empty. Nothing to do, no-one waiting for me, everything seems irrelevant. Getting up in the morning seems very difficult ...it seems as if there is no need to get up ... no one is calling ...

I dont know what you guys do, but I think my generosity is killing me ... a generous husband booking tickets for 3+ months for his family to be out without him ...

I wish to register to some pottery/painting classes, the bay area has many groups that meetup for many things, but no urge to go anywhere. Previously when the family was with me, it felt as if because of them I couldnt go extra curricular ... but now they are gone and still I feel no interest in pursuing things that I wanted to do ...

Not sure how I will handle 3 months ... It has just been 3 days since they left ... I have already re-arranged my apartment so many times :-)
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Old April 29th, 2012, 02:26 PM
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Landya bhai, let couple of weeks pass then time will fly by.
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It so lonely at my side. Wifey and Son both left for India for 3 months. Will be back by the first week of August.
O terrri...Nikal padi be teri to.....
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By the time they return you may become habitual to loneliness and there return may become disturbance

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Old April 30th, 2012, 11:59 AM
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JeetBhau, you are so right ... as the days are passing I am getting accustomed to my loneliness ... in fact at times I have felt that I have always been lonely ...
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Old April 30th, 2012, 12:13 PM
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Amtha, what do you do? You were in this situation some time back, if I remember correctly ... after all the partying is done, how do you get around to your loneliness ...
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Re: Lonely Planet?

landya bhau every one has been in this situation of loneliness at some point or the other - not necessarily exactly the same - but lonely.
everyone does it differently. its only a state of mind that you will get over.
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Old April 30th, 2012, 01:34 PM
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landya bhau every one has been in this situation of loneliness at some point or the other - not necessarily exactly the same - but lonely.
everyone does it differently. its only a state of mind that you will get over.
Yes!

That's very true ... it has always been like that ... the mind trying to grapple this new uncomfortable state of mind ...
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I am sure you have friends... and those friends have wives. Bas roz one friend's home and have the wife of the day cook for you. Round robin all their homes. Good food and good company. Loneliness will be missing you then
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Yes!

That's very true ... it has always been like that ... the mind trying to grapple this new uncomfortable state of mind ...

So LB ji - tell me about your update schedule, are you supposed to provide position/location and activity updates on an hourly/ half hourly or bi-diurnal basis ?


what about a GPS tracking ankle bracelet ?
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Amtha, what do you do? You were in this situation some time back, if I remember correctly ... after all the partying is done, how do you get around to your loneliness ...
woh sab movies dekh daali hongi amtha lala ne jo bachchon ke saamne dekhna manaa hai

thoda BBQ ke saath beer, thoda BBQ ke baad beer. stupid drunk hoke do chaar phones apne yaaron ko aur dimaag ke frustration nikala hoga ...

That's it for nikal padi....

facebook pe next day hi update aaya hoga ... missing wifey and kids already.

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Old April 30th, 2012, 01:33 PM
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woh sab movies dekh daali hongi amtha lala ne jo bachchon ke saamne dekhna manaa hai

thoda BBQ ke saath beer, thoda BBQ ke baad beer. stupid drunk hoke do chaar phones apne yaaron ko aur dimaag ke frustration nikala hoga ...

That's it for nikal padi....

facebook pe next day hi update aaya hoga ... missing wifey and kids already.

good one ...
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Mujhe lagta nahi LandyaBhai ne kabhi kissi ko rep kiya hoga, Premi naseeb waala tu


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Do you really want to know!!!!!

I just throw a party for myself. Eat anything, drink like fish, watch movies etcc....are the common stuff, but there are lot more.
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Do you really want to know!!!!!

I just throw a party for myself. Eat anything, drink like fish, watch movies etcc....are the common stuff, but there are lot more.
Like what?

I am thinking of doing some house upgrades ...
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