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December 29th, 2000, 11:48 PM
So much about what a man looks for in his women. Now for what a woman looks for in his man. Some of the things girls wanna know about the man she is going to marry :
1. Do you smoke?
2. Do you take drinks?
3. What kind of movies do you like?
4. Do you want to stay in India or do you have any plans to go abroad?
5. Is yours a touring sort of Job?
6. Will you let me work?
7. Will you let me study further?
8. Do you work late hours?
9. What is your blood group?
10. What do you do on your weekends?
11. Are you very orthodox?
12. Do you believe in God?
December 30th, 2000, 12:08 AM
Get some more of these questions, it will definitely help lal langot.....;)
December 30th, 2000, 12:17 AM
how much do you earn?
Are you good in bed?
Are your parents going to stay with us?
Do you have aids?
Did you have any relationships in the past?
December 30th, 2000, 02:13 AM
keep them rolling guys...also one from my side would she also want to know whether you use a diaper/langot??
and what about
"can you change it yourself without momy or will I have to do it??"
Maybe she also would want to know whether one is gay/bi/curious???
because in India you never know dhokhay dhadi mein who could be given what kind of deal....
December 30th, 2000, 12:10 PM
I had an arranged marriage. I had been to India for getting engaged. Then I came back to USA. The marriage was to happen 6 months after this.
I used to chat and exchange emails with my wife (my fiance then)
She had asked me some questions before we got engaged:
Where is your job?
Is it permanent or contracting?
Do you have any vices? If yes, will you change habits for me?
Do you like movies?
Do you visit the temple atleast once a month?
And offcourse, What do you want in a wife?
Well, we both like deach other and then things moved on.
During our email and chat courtship, we discussed a lot of topics and slowly started feeling that the decision of marriage was right. Hence I feel that even if you have an arranged marriage you should try to keep a gap between engagement and marriage. So that you can decide to go ahead or stop the marriage in case your courtship proves that the person you are looking for is not the right one for you.
We were quite comfortable with each other and started feeling like old friends so we stood firm on decision of marriage.
Another thing you should know before hand or slowly talk of is sex. You have seen my posts here as I did not pay attention to this topic before. But from experience I can tell that girls like and want to know more about sex.
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